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Ed Oscuro
10-08-2003, 02:00 PM
1.) Trying to play me off against an imaginary bidder

"Yeah, he actually went up $20! You'll have to offer something better."

Though I've never actually felt a seller was trying this, it's something that irks me. This also feeds into

2.) Changing the trade

I usually never discuss the details of a trade, even after they're completed, but this is an exception. So this fellow has something that I want and says he'll trade for a GameCube and some games. Great, I spend a day or so waiting for a reply to an email and I put together a small list of games that I could possibly send. Right as I'm about to buy somebody's GameCube, he emails back...oh, somebody ELSE offered me an XBOX bundle that I like better! How nice of them. That not only inconvienenced myself, but made me look bad to the person I contacted about buying the GameCube (our own Forum's AdamG, who doesn't deserve to recieve yet another email from me saying that I'm interested in something when I turn out not to be. For his good conduct in the face of all this, I commend him highly).

3.) Oops, we screwed up the webpage and now we give you...FREE SHITTY GAMES!

While I continue to maintain that Game Choice Club is honest and pleasant to deal with, their practice of updating their website is horrid. I bought $661.97 worth of stuff from them, and two months later it's still being held up because they don't have a mint Sharp Twin Famicom of the style and condition that I paid for. They tried once (only once, honorably) to get me to trade. Now, like waving a carrot underneath my nose, they offer to give me "two free games of our choice." Wow! Wonderful. The part that's truly galling, though, is something I've already mentioned here on the boards: They listed the unit as "in stock" when I purchased it; the next day their page mysteriously was updated to a red "restock soon. As I originally feared, it was not because I'd bought the last one. This is even worse considering that they now require you to register with them and use a shopping cart system to buy games--if they're doing that, they should also have a system to keep their site updated.

I've also had them wholly run out of games I wanted after I made the purchase, and essentially had another game forced on me. Hopefully, my copies of the MD Shadow Dancer, Phantasy Star IV and Real Bout Fatal Fury Special won't suffer the same fate.

I also dislike people who convince themselves that they'll go find what you asked for and end up not responding to your emails for a week. I can wait for a long time, but I by no means enjoy it.

4.) Bundling different parts of games that don't go together.
While this happened to me recently because I both selected the wrong item to buy and also didn't look at the listing closely enough, NOBODY should EVER offer to sell a Mega Games 1 box with a beat up Streets of Rage manual and a Golden Axe box inside. Nobody. Ever. It's an inherently confusing practice and there's no value in doing this. While I won't throw these items away, I do not appreciate that I essentially have junk to store somewhere now.

5.) Being far too free in giving out "excellent" or "mint" grades to items you're selling.

This is common, far too common. It does seem, though, that eBay sellers aren't using the terms "RARE" and especially "L@@K!" as much as they used to -- perhaps it was only my recent visit to see what was there, but it looked to me like more rare stuff was selling (and being ignored ;_;) and these terms were nowhere in sight. Go eBay!

6.) I don't believe you're serious about this, so I'm going to take EVERY POSSIBLE PRECAUTION to see that you WON'T, or rather, CAN'T buy it.

A very few people know who I'm talking about. While I would probably regret this purchase now, I would have saved up for it and this conduct was wholly inappropriate. I really should not have posted this, but folks: If you really aren't looking forward to somebody getting money around for a purchase, then just say you can't wait that long. Seeing how these items wouldn't have sold otherwise, though, I find it rather odd that my insistence that I'd pay *when* I had the money didn't make an impression.

7.) Being a n00b about packaging.

Some people feel they can package a game better if they flatten the box out carefully...and they might be right. It's certainly no worse than recieving a game which you know was perfect WHEN you bought it, but has a partially or totally crushed box because the seller is incompetent. This happened to my MSX2, which has a series of deep gashes along the left side, and various big scuff marks from the items (power supply, some games) that were put on top of it. It's a miracle that the Super Famicom games I also recieved weren't terribly damaged as well.

And the final seller practice which I abhor...

8.) Flaming the everlasting HELL out of an interested buyer because they did something you don't like!

I'll admit that I make my errors, and I make them daily. I'll also say, though, that I never put a nasty edge on my emails and any complaints are decidedly low-key. While I haven't had many instances where this happened, though, the fact that some people apparently have a need to truly flame the hell out somebody for raising a concern (or even just being generally cranky) is inexcusable. Everybody deserves to have their concerns met with a carefully writen, thoughtful reply that does not have sarcasm or nastiness in it, EVEN IF the original email they're replying to was filled with caps and "WTF?"

That just about sums things up. While no doubt this may make me some enemies, I honestly feel these comments are all fair and are simply attacks on certain behaviors that I dislike -- not a person in whole.

Raccoon Lad
10-08-2003, 02:13 PM
I hate sellers who use a "stock photo" for every item they sale, especially when they combine it with a mis-typed game title, and product that is in far crappier condition than in their "stock photo".

*cough*peschmagic*cough*

chadtower
10-08-2003, 02:16 PM
You are now my enemy. I will defeat your teacher in mortal combat and close your school. :evil:

Ed Oscuro
10-08-2003, 02:21 PM
*Yuzo Koshiro's Long Distance plays on a Mega Drive in the background*

"Huh? WHAT? NOoo TEACHER!"

Teacher: "Come here Oscuro! The foul Chadtower has stabbed me and I fear a soon death. You must take my sword hidden in the middle of a room filled with killer monkeybees and defeat him!!"

Me: "OK!"

Flack
10-08-2003, 08:01 PM
My biggest eBay pet peeve is when people seriously overcharge on shipping. On purpose.

I ordered an autographed Star Wars figure off of eBay once. The seller charged $6 for shipping. Now, I'm thinking to myself, he could easily ship it USPS for $4, but you know, it's two bucks, and it was a good price. When I got the figure, the card was FOLDED IN HALF and stuck in a manilla envelope with a buck shipping on the outside. A buck. He could have sent it priority and made two bucks off the deal, but instead he basically ruined the value of the card and made five bucks off of shipping. Ass.

Stock photos and not enough information in auctions also irk me, but usually won't keep me from bidding on an auction.

Flack

nesuser2
10-08-2003, 08:19 PM
bubble mailers piss me off period. i don't care how cheap you are on shipping or how good the deal is. the only thing i can deal with is printed materials. other than that, it needs to be in a box. i don't know where you're going to find the box or if you're going to pay for it. and quite frankly i don't care........just put it in a box. everything i've ever shipped was in a box......and if you're on the forums.....usually you have incoming packages and outgoing packages......or some of us do. but the people that sell and trade stuff on here DO also receive stuff......am i the only person that recycles boxes. i save every box i can, no matter how small. JUST SHIP IN BOXES GUYS!(GALS TOO!!)

Bratwurst
10-08-2003, 08:56 PM
bubble mailers piss me off period. i don't care how cheap you are on shipping or how good the deal is. the only thing i can deal with is printed materials. other than that, it needs to be in a box.

I was almost worried there that I was guilty of irking you, but then I remember that trade I sent you -was- in a box. :D

I rarely use bubble mailers myself, though I do make custom packages with thick layers of bubble wrap and tyvek envelopes. Better padding, and actually lighter in the long run so shipping is cheaper.

I haven't had very many sour ebay experiences nor any where I've been ripped off- yet. This is after at least two years of using it. I like to think I'm a good judge of character that way, or I can sense something fishy I guess. It's a general rule of thumb to avoid blurry photos, vague shipping totals and so on.

On or off ebay, what irritates me the most is a deliberate delay in shipping. Month long delays, where a certain someone on this board took my money order, waited that long to get around to sending it off, then only packed the box half-full of foam peanuts and let the Sega CD kick around on top. Yeah, you know who you are. So much for reading into member trade feedback 100% of the time here.

jonjandran
10-08-2003, 09:27 PM
bubble mailers piss me off period. i don't care how cheap you are on shipping or how good the deal is. the only thing i can deal with is printed materials. other than that, it needs to be in a box. i don't know where you're going to find the box or if you're going to pay for it. and quite frankly i don't care........just put it in a box. everything i've ever shipped was in a box......and if you're on the forums.....usually you have incoming packages and outgoing packages......or some of us do. but the people that sell and trade stuff on here DO also receive stuff......am i the only person that recycles boxes. i save every box i can, no matter how small. JUST SHIP IN BOXES GUYS!(GALS TOO!!)

I've sent HUNDREDS of games off in a bubble mailer with the Post Office , and I've never got a complaint.
Not one item messed up or hurt.
With those odds , I shall continue to use bubble mailers.
Maybe it's UPS and FedEx that is the problem.

Balloon Fight
10-08-2003, 09:30 PM
Bubble mailing doesnt piss me off as long as the game has a box so its protected. The 2 things i hate are when people give you the absolute WORST box ever. Its like they went dumpster diving and find a box with shit on it and say " Here we go."
I also really hate when they charge $8 for a game that cost 5.

Achika
10-08-2003, 09:39 PM
....am i the only person that recycles boxes. i save every box i can, no matter how small. JUST SHIP IN BOXES GUYS!(GALS TOO!!)

I totally recycle my packaging. Even bubble mailers. If they look like they haven't been mangled I usually reuse them, mostly for small things or books. If they have only the "bubble wrap" use left, I put the item in it, seal it up, put it in a box. Use every spare thing.

Flack
10-08-2003, 09:57 PM
I just bought a pair of shoes the other day and freaked out when my wife went to throw away the box. That's when you know you've officially sent one too many things. :)

Flack

Ed Oscuro
10-08-2003, 10:34 PM
I've had PRETTY good luck with bubble mailers, but I don't like getting them. Cardboard boxes seem to get damaged quite often, while plastic Sega game cases don't. I like Sega cases :)

jonjandran
10-08-2003, 10:38 PM
I've had PRETTY good luck with bubble mailers, but I don't like getting them. Cardboard boxes seem to get damaged quite often, while plastic Sega game cases don't. I like Sega cases :)

I should have clarified my post. I never ship a game that's in it's original box in a bubble mailer. I put those in another box so they don't get crushed.
But I do ship cart only, and cd games in a bubble mailer. I wrap them in more bubble wrap to be safe.
Like I said , not one complaint.

Ed Oscuro
10-08-2003, 10:42 PM
Oh sure, bubble mailers are usually swell for loose cartridges, but I don't buy many of those. As a serious collector, bubble mailers tend to be a problem since I usually expect everything--even systems--to have a box if possible.

nesuser2
10-08-2003, 11:41 PM
just a couple things in reply.........

i never ship ups or fedex. i shouldn't say never though.......now and then i ship big packages UPS because it saves......i sent 30 sealed NES games through UPS for $10. and it was a pretty heavy box because i had to practically armor the box($1000 in goods, Yikes X_x )

achika, i will second your motion on the bubble mailers. i always rip the flap off of them when i get them so i keep them for the bubble goodnes, rap something else and box it up.

boxes are the main reason i send priority. you can fit an awful lot of stuff in a free priority box and they're pretty da'gon nice boxes too......me thinks.

and as far as the mailers go with luck. one of the first things i ever got in a bubble mailer got damaged pretty bad. there wasn't much i could do or the seller could do.......so.......i was just disappointed.....that's all

Vroomfunkel
10-09-2003, 08:25 AM
I almost always use bubble envelopes... but then I sell mostly Megadrive games, and those good old Sega boxes are pretty much indestructible. Still, if it is valuable I will wrap it in an extra layer of bubble wrap as well. If I was sending something like Panzer Dragoon Saga, which comes in a card box, I would not use a jiffy bag though ...that thing would be wrapped in cotton wool and shipped in a sturdy box lined with bubble wrap!!

Nearly everything I receive comes in bubble envelopes and for the most part I don't mind. If there is something that I want to make sure is protected I will email the seller and ask them to take special care in packaging it - like with the Metal Slug RAM box set I bought. That came in a box, and I was glad about that!

Mind you, I have had bad experiences even with boxed stuff. The worst is when you buy a big lot - console and games etc off someone, and they send it all in a beat up re-used box and with NO PACKAGING!!! Yeah. Had that one. And it pissed me off a lot. Especially since the Mega CD was broken. Hardly suprising really. Thankfully I got compensation for it, but it still pissed me off - I wanted that Mega CD!!

Vroomfunkel

bigdaddychester
10-09-2003, 10:17 AM
I will agree with all the points everyone has made with shipping packages. My wife recently decided to start selling Mary Kay so it seems like once a week there is a new box with "peanuts" and bubble wrap to recycle :D

My beef, and I think this has been covered, is when you have a reletively smooth transaction on both sides (buyer and seller) and no matter which one I happen to be, I can't get the other to leave feedback :angry: :angry:
I always try to send an email confirming I received the goods in perfect condition and have left feedback for them in hopes of politely proding them to do the same but all too often I think people are just too busy to want to deal with it.

Also, I know there are a lot of great people to deal with here on the DP but I was wandering if we could have some sort of feedback rating on trades and Buy/Sell that would show up under our usernames or maybe in our profiles? I know we have the good/bad traders thing but that's a lot of pages to wade through.

jonjandran
10-09-2003, 10:21 AM
Also, I know there are a lot of great people to deal with here on the DP but I was wandering if we could have some sort of feedback rating on trades and Buy/Sell that would show up under our usernames or maybe in our profiles? I know we have the good/bad traders thing but that's a lot of pages to wade through.

I second this motion. We need a # under our names.
Like: JonJandran
Good trades\10 Bad trades\0

buttasuperb
10-09-2003, 10:38 AM
Most of the time I give the buyer the option if I use a bubble mailer or not. If they pay the priority rate, then it gets shipped in a priority box. If they pay the regular rate, then it goes in a bubble mailer. Of course that's only for CD games, and sometimes Genny games. Cardboard box games always get shipped in a box.

ddockery
10-09-2003, 11:21 AM
If not a number under a name, at least a decent page with a list of names and good/bad transactions... the post that we have now really is impractical.

nesuser2
10-09-2003, 12:02 PM
that will take some thought to come up with something good as far as feedback but i do agree that maybe it needs some work. and the trades thing under the name wouldn't hardly do it because i would lose track myself since i have so many trades going all the time. but maybe a seperate section for each user where you login, and type in the person you just started a trade with. then you have an ongoing list of the people you need to submit for.....whether it was a good trade, bad trade, or the trade got cancelled. but then again.....things get hairy just like ebay.......but maybe we could leave personal comments out.......it kind of stinks for those making really good trades but.......it's a thought :hmm:

Ed Oscuro
10-09-2003, 12:04 PM
On the other hand, this could create problems when the other person can't take a small criticism. No, I'd rather NOT trade off my ability to speak out loud for a rating, however good it would be :D

nesuser2
10-09-2003, 12:18 PM
maybe leave no room for dragging on about a good trade but they can say something to go with a bad trade rating. and then, the other party could speak for themselves once as well. bad rating with description + a reply. nothing further. and ratings could be changed from bad to good unlike ebay.......and people should never jump the gun on leaving feedback.....here or ebay and i dont think there is much of a problem on here......but i guess you never know until you get feedback set up more user friendly

devilman
10-09-2003, 12:45 PM
My pet peeve would have to be the selling of games in 'MINT CONDITION!!' for cart-only stuff. The cartridge may be in mint condition but where's the rest of it?

nesuser2
10-09-2003, 07:11 PM
i'm missing your point.......something doesn't have to be complete to be mint......if you want to go that far you better ask where the shrinkwrap is :hmm:

not to bash you........just my opinions

devilman
10-09-2003, 07:35 PM
I know what you're saying - I know the game is the most important thing. :) Maybe I just don't like it when they get my hopes up by putting in the title of an auction something like 'Majora's Mask - Mind Condition'. There's a lot of people wanting £29.99 for this game so I'm always surprised when they want that kind of money for just the cartridge.

nesuser2
10-09-2003, 08:13 PM
i agree.......on that point.....because, wow.....that's $45 and then some maybe......i forget the exchange rate. i know it's atleast $1.50 to 1 pound. it might even be 1.73.....it's been a while since i've looked into it at all.