Ok, I have my Paypal account originally set to only allowing verified user to pay me. For one of my auctions that just ended and a previous one, I've had the auction winners complaining that they couldn't pay since they weren't verified (previous one before this didn't pay within the 7 days, filed an Unpaid Item claim, then I got an email from her saying how she couldn't pay because she wasn't verified, etc. She paid, I sent it out and now she told me "I never got this much aggravation using ebay in the years I've used it". Then she ignored my email about leaving feedback since she did get the item.

So I was nice enough to change it to asking me to accept the payments, and I still getting people complaining (though I've started putting "only accepting verified paypal account users" line in my auctions.

If this guy with my current auction that he won complains again (or just doesn'y pay) I'm really considering using the Second Chance offer...