Originally Posted by
jonnyutah
japanese sex culture really is the cultue shock part of the culture shock that westerners feel in japan. just look at some jp porn. not my thing but most of the women cry or act like they have been completely taken advantage of. i guess the japaense look at it as softrape or whatever but it's weird and wrong. women are opressed in japan. not in the sense that the islamic world opress women but it's still opression.
i have a friend in japan that worked for a company and she would tell me that she would have to go out with older co workers for drinks and even with her boss. she didn't like it at all. so i said just don't go if you don't want to. she said i have to. it's the japanese way. I must.
i think japan is a nice country but western individualism is so foreign to the japanese. japan is a great country. but once you live there you realize how awsome and culturaly free the west is. (us. eu, canada, aust, israel) i think the easiest japanese to form a solid honest friendship with are the ones hat have lived/studied in the west.