Not everyone there is that full of themselves or rude, there are some members there though they are waning that actually care more about the games than the dick measuring contests. I got over being the hard core collector a decade ago as I was forced to part most of it off and it just changed how I thought about it all and there are quite a few others there too that are that way who just like to talk games or just play them over running up the totals they're worth and for those they wanted or had already bought the thing like me.