I love video games, collect them, buy them, sell them, talk about them.
But when I someone asks me to recommend a game suitable for a 4 year old, I want to revoke that parent's licence to parent.
Video games, essentially, are a great time waster and a hobby. There's no room for a developing mind to throw away perfectly good time learning living his/her life to get slack jawed at a screen. This is just my opinion.
I'm an old pro of fark, so if there are any haughty rebuttals, give'er.